Gratitude - Your Key to Activating The Law of Attraction by Priya Deelchand

Gratitude - Your Key to Activating the Law of Attraction

By Priya Deelchand

Developing an attitude of gratitude is one of the most important things that you can do to manifest more of the things that you desire into your life. According to Brian Tracy, "Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you, knowing that every step forward is a step toward achieving something bigger and better than your current situation." When you consciously and consistently develop the habit of expressing earnest gratitude for what you already have in your life, you will attract into your life more things, situations and circumstances to be thankful for.

The Law of Attraction states that you attract into your life whatever you give your attention, energy and focus to, whether wanted or unwanted. According to this powerful universal law, you are constantly sending out vibrations in the Universe. These vibrations are in the form of your thoughts, feelings and emotions and they can be either positive or negative. The events, situations and circumstances that you attract in your life will always be in perfect alignment with the vibrations that you are emitting.

When you are in a genuine state of gratitude, you will be resonating at a higher vibrational frequency since the vibration that you will be sending out will be one of acceptance and harmony. You will, as a result attract into your life more situations and experiences to be grateful for. Expressing heartfelt gratitude for any circumstance projects a magnetic force that attracts to you more of what you are expressing gratitude for.

According to Jack Canfield "Being truly grateful for what is already present in your life will automatically and effortlessly attract more good into your life. Make a conscious decision to appreciate and acknowledge all that you have already been blessed with. These emotions are of the highest vibrational frequency, and through the Law of Attraction they will attract even more to be thankful for."

Be grateful for even the difficult situations in your life because very often, it is through these events that you get the best opportunities to grow. If you do not expressing gratitude for the difficult situations in your life, you will be resisting the difficult situations and this will place your focus on not wanting that situation. This resistance puts you in a lower vibrational frequency which only serves to attract to you more difficult events, conditions and circumstances into your life. If, instead you adopt a more positive attitude and you are thankful for the lessons that you are learning while facing these challenging circumstances, you will switch your vibration from negative to positive and you will attract more positive situations in your life.

Louise Hay said "I have noticed that the Universe loves gratitude. The more grateful you are, the more goodies you get. When I say goodies, I do not mean only material things. I mean all the people, places and experiences that make life so wonderfully worth living. You know how great you feel when your life is filled with love and joy and health and creativity, and you get the green lights and the parking places. This is how our lives are meant to be. The Universe is a generous, abundant giver, and it likes to be appreciated."

Spend as many moments as you can every day being thankful for all the good that are already in your life. You all know that according to the Law of Attraction, what you focus on expands. The more we focus on the things that we already have and the more we express our gratitude, the energy of gratitude will draw more of the things we desire to us. Begin your practice of gratitude today and attract more and more abundance, joy, love, prosperity, peace and success into your life. You deserve it!

Priya Deelchand is a Life and Business Coach and Founder of Success Strategies Consultants Ltd. She coaches and helps people worldwide in both English and French using Law of Attraction, EFT and other powerful techniques. If you want to live a happier and more fulfilled life, please visit us at http://www.successstrategiesconsultants.com.

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Power of Thought - A Quantum Perspective - By Kent Healy

The Optimist Creed

Law of Attraction Daily Affirmations

Law of Attraction Explained

Life Is Like A cup of Coffee

Turbocharge Your Life With Life Coaching

Turbocharge Your Life With Life Coaching

By Priya Deelchand

We all dream of a better life, a happier tomorrow, a brighter future. Today we live in a world which is in a chaotic state. Everyday in the news, we hear only of calamities, bad news, etc which are happening all around our planet. Hearing these sorts of things now appears normal to us but in reality, it is not! Even our lives are confused. We are no longer living, we are simply existing. That is not the way life should be and we human beings are not meant to live such lives. We deserve better, happier and more fulfilling lives. This is our birthright and this is what we are here for. For most of us, this seems impossible. We are so used to live our lives by default that having it all in life seems too good to be true. Yet, this is possible through appropriate life coaching and right application of the law of attraction. We all deserve and are meant to live our best possible life. We can and we must all become actors of our lives instead of being mere spectators.

In all parts of the world, people have become very well off on the material level. We can afford most of the things that we want but we no longer know how to live and how to enjoy simple pleasures of life. Our educational system has provided us with all appropriate knowledge, academic qualifications and skills that enable us to earn a living but they do not provide us with the most important thing of all: "How to really live". That's where life coaching becomes very important today. It shows us how to become masters of our lives and provides us with all the appropriate guidance and tools to make our lives a masterpiece.

Life coaching is for any of us who wants to get back on track in any area of life. We all have problems and we all want to eliminate these problems and live happier and more fulfilled lives. Law of attraction coaching is the right tool which will allow us to get from where we are to where we want to be. However, it is not a magic formula. Your life coach acts as a "way shower" and is here to guide you step by step, but the real work lies on you. You need to have a real determination to change and a very strong will power.

Wonderful outcomes are normally achieved most of the time with life coaching and many people experience life changing results. Whether you are finding it difficult to attract the right partner, the right career, more abundance and prosperity, more peace of mind, more success or want to achieve the right balance between personal and professional life, your life coach has all the tools at hand to help you achieve your goal.

Some of us find it very difficult to manifest the things that we want because of our limiting beliefs which are most of the time self-imposed or imposed on us by our family, our friends, the environment we live in, etc and these limiting beliefs are stuck in our subconscious minds. The aim of life coaching is to detect your limiting beliefs through right questioning and other powerful techniques and then help you eliminate them and replace them by more positive ones. Once the blocks are eliminated, you can start attracting the things that you really want and live your life by design.

We all want to live in a better and happier world and we all dream of a better future for ourselves and our children. It is high time for all of us to really take charge of our lives and live the best possible life we are designed to. In this way, we will be able to positively impact on our family, our environment and on the world at large. The change must begin with each one of us and the right time to change is NOW. As Mahatma Gandhi rightly said "Be the change you want to see in the world."

Priya Deelchand is a Life and Business Coach and founder of Success Strategies Consultants Ltd. She coaches and helps people worldwide using Law of Attraction, EFT and other powerful techniques. If you want to live a happier and more fulfilled life, please visit us at http://www.successstrategiesconsultants.com

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The Champions Creed

THE CHAMPIONS CREED- by James Ray

I know that I have the ability to achieve my definite purpose in life, therefore, I demand of myself massive, immediate, intelligent, persistent, and consistent action towards its attainment. I here and now promise to render such action.

I fully realize that no wealth or position can long endure, unless built upon truth, integrity, and incredible value, therefore, I will engage in no transaction that does not benefit all whom it affects.

I succeed by attracting to myself the forces that are in harmony with my vision, and the partnership and cooperation of other people. I will induce others to serve me because of my willingness to serve others.

I eliminate hatred, envy,jealousy, selfishness, cynicism, anger, and competition by developing true love for myself and all humanity. I know that there is an unlimited supply of goodness in my universe and that a negative attitude towards others can never bring me success. I compel others to believe in me, because I believe in them and in myself.

This is my creed and my quest. To never stop climbing to the top, to always keep growing and moving forward, to always scale endless peaks of possibility and to fulfill my destiny. I KNOW that my spirit's sole purpose is for fuller expansion and statement-- that I am dying if I am not growing. Therefore, I learn, grow, and expand my comfort zone each and every day. I believe in, and commit to progressive advancement, growth and improvement.

I AM the power. I AM the magic. I AM unstoppable. I AM a winner.

I promise to always be true to myself, because I AM a child of the creator and a master of my universe. I AM responsible for making a positive difference in the world and to the quality of life in it.

The Window Through Which We Look!

A young couple moves into a new neighborhood. The next morning while they are eating breakfast, the young woman sees her neighbor hanging the wash outside.

"That laundry is not very clean", she said. "She doesn't know how to wash correctly. Perhaps she needs better laundry soap"

Her husband looked on, but remained silent.

Every time her neighbor would hang her wash to dry, the young woman would make the same comments. About one month later, the woman was surprised to see a nice clean wash on the line and said to her husband:

"Look, she has learned how to wash correctly. I wonder who taught her this?"

The husband said, "I got up early this morning and cleaned our windows."

And so it is with life.. What we see when watching others depends on the purity of the window through which we look.

Gratitude Quotes

"He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has." Epictetus

“God gave you a gift of 86,400 seconds today. Have you used one to say "thank you?" William A. Ward

"No one is as capable of gratitude as one who has emerged from the kingdom of night." Elie Wiesel

"If you want to turn your life around, try thankfulness. It will change your life mightily." Gerald Good

"Feeling grateful or appreciative of someone or something in your life actually attracts more of the things that you appreciate and value into your life." Christiane Northrup

"Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you, knowing that every step forward is a step toward achieving something bigger and better than your current situation." Brian Tracy

“The hardest arithmetic to master is that which enables us to count our blessings.” Eric Hoffer

“Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it.” William Arthur Ward

“Let us rise up and be thankful, for if we didn't learn a lot today, at least we learned a little, and if we didn't learn a little, at least we didn't get sick, and if we got sick, at least we didn't die; so, let us all be thankful.” Buddha

"As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them." John F. Kennedy

“Whatever our individual troubles and challenges may be, it’s important to pause every now and then to appreciate all that we have, on every level. We need to literally “count our blessings,” give thanks for them, allow ourselves to enjoy them, and relish the experience of prosperity we already have.” — Shakti Gawain

"If the only prayer you said in your whole life was, "thank you," that would suffice." Meister Eckhart

"Gratitude is merely the secret hope of further favors." François de La Rochefoucauld

"If a fellow isn't thankful for what he's got, he isn't likely to be thankful for what he's going to get." Frank A. Clark

“You simply will not be the same person two months from now after consciously giving thanks each day for the abundance that exists in your life. And you will have set in motion an ancient spiritual law: the more you have and are grateful for, the more will be given you.” Sarah Ban Breathnach

“Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace and gratitude.” Denis Waitley

“Reflect upon your present blessings, of which every man has plenty; not on your past misfortunes of which all men have some.” Charles Dickens

Use The Law of Attraction To Attract Your Ideal Partner

by Priya Deelchand

Finding the right partner is one of the major concerns of lots of people nowadays. Some of the common reasons why people do not succeed in manifesting their ideal relationships are negative attitudes and beliefs. If you believe that you will never attract the perfect partner or that the ideal partner does not exist, you will never manifest the right partner in your life. What you believe is what you receive. It has been found that your relationships account for 85% of your overall happiness. This means that a happy relationship can literally change your life!

You can use the Law of Attraction to attract your ideal partner. This powerful law states that you attract into your life, whatever you give your energy, attention and focus to, whether wanted or unwanted. Since your thought is energy, by holding certain thoughts and vibrating a certain way, you become a magnet and attract to you people vibrating at more or less the same frequency. Deepak Chopra was perfectly right when he said “However good or bad you feel about your relationship, the person you are with at this moment is the "right" person, because he or she is the mirror of who you are inside.” If you are vibrating at a level of 85, it is very likely that you would attract people vibrating in a range of 80 to 90 and very unlikely that you would attract people vibrating at a level of 10.

If you want to attract your ideal relationship, you must become a “vibrational match” to the person you want to share your life with. In fact, you do not get what you want but instead you get what you vibrate. The vibrations that you emit can be either positive or negative and the Law of Attraction will always respond to the vibration that you are sending out by giving you more of the same. If you are a very positive person, you will be emitting a positive vibration and you will be surrounded by positive people. If on the other hand, you are a person who is always angry, fearful, jealous, etc, you will be sending out negative vibrations as a result of which you will tend to attract more and more negative people, situations and experiences into your life.

If you want to attract your ideal partner, you have to see what you are currently attracting in this particular area of your life and what vibration you are emitting. If you are not attracting the relationship you want, you will have to be very clear about what you want in your ideal relationship. Clarity is of utmost importance. Most of the time, it is very difficult to know exactly what you want in an ideal partner. One of the best ways to become clear is to make a list of qualities and characteristics that you do not like in your existing or previous relationships. Once you have made your list, you can proceed by making the list of characteristics that you do want in an ideal partner. The things that you want are the opposite of the things that you do not want. For example, you can replace “I do not want a quarrelsome relationship” by “I want a harmonious relationship”, “I do not want a selfish partner” by “I want a generous partner”, etc.

Once you have become very clear about what you want in your ideal mate, you can continue with the next step which is to become a “vibrational match” to the ideal partner you want to attract. How do you become a “vibrational match” to the ideal partner you want to attract? Well, suppose in your list you want to attract a loving and caring partner. If you, yourself are not caring and loving, it will be difficult for you to attract a loving and caring person. According to the Law of Attraction, you attract what you vibrate. You must therefore start raising your vibration to become loving and caring. It is only then that you can attract what you want into your life. Stephen R. Covey said “The most important ingredient we put into any relationship is not what we say or what we do, but what we are.”

Once you have become clear about what you want and you have raised your vibration to attract your ideal partner, the last step is to allow your ideal partner to come to you. Allowing is the absence of doubt. If you have a strong desire to attract your ideal mate but at the same time, you have strong doubts, you will never be able to attract what you want because you will be sending mixed signals in the universe. If on the other hand, you have a strong desire and some doubt, you will attract our ideal mate, but it will take a little longer. The best formula for rapid manifestation of your ideal relationship is when you have a strong desire and no doubt at all.

Always follow the wise advice given by Russ Von Hoelscher “Don't rush into any kind of relationship. Work on yourself. Feel yourself, experience yourself and love yourself. Do this first and you will soon attract that special loving other.”

Whatever You Focus On Expands!

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Here is an old Sioux Indian story that I would like to share with you today. The source of this story is unknown.

My grandfather took me to the fish pond on the farm when I was about seven, and he told me to throw a stone into the water. He told me to watch the circles created by the stone. Then he asked me to think of myself as that stone person.

"You may create lots of splashes in your life but the waves that come from those splashes will disturb the peace of all your fellow creatures," he said.

"Remember that you are responsible for what you put in your circle and that circle will also touch many other circles. You will need to live in a way that allows the good that comes from your circle to send the peace of that goodness to others. The splash that comes from anger or jealousy will send those feelings to other circles. You are responsible for both."

That was the first time I realized each person creates the inner peace or discord that flows out into the world.

We cannot create world peace if we are riddled with inner conflict, hatred, doubt, or anger. We radiate the feelings and thoughts that we hold inside, whether we speak them or not. Whatever is splashing around inside of us is spilling out into the world, creating beauty or discord with all other circles of life.

Remember the eternal wisdom:
WHATEVER YOU FOCUS ON EXPANDS!

Always Encourage Others!

Posted by Priya Deelchand

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Here is a very famous story that I would like to share with you now.

A number of frogs were travelling through the woods. Two of them fell into a deep pit. All the other frogs gathered around the pit. When they saw how deep the pit was, they told the two frogs that they were as good as dead.

The two frogs ignored the comments and tried to jump up out of the pit with all of their might. The other frogs kept telling them to stop, that they were as good as dead.

Finally, one of the frogs took heed to what the other frogs were saying and gave up. He fell down and died.

The other frog continued to jump as hard as he could. Once again, the crowd of frogs yelled at him to stop the pain and just die. He jumped even harder and finally made it out.

When he got out, the other frogs said, "Did you not hear us?" The frog explained to them that he was deaf. He thought they were encouraging him the entire time.

This story teaches two great lessons:

There is the power of life and death in the tongue. An encouraging word to someone who is down can lift them up and help them make it through the day.

A destructive word to someone who is down can be the push over the edge. Be careful of what you say. Speak life to those who cross your path. Anyone can speak words that can rob another of the spirit to push forward in difficult times.

Special is the individual who will take the time to encourage another. So my wonderful friends, always be kind and encourage others.

Attract Your Ideal Job With The Law Of Attraction

by Priya Deelchand

Choosing the right career is of highest importance if you want to live a happier and more fulfilled life. Today, in this highly competitive world, most of you spend the largest part of your time at work. If you are not happy in your job, it will be reflected in the other areas of your life. If, on the other hand, you make the right career choice right from the beginning and do what you really love and enjoy, your job will be fun. The great Confucius once said "Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life."

Most of us are conditioned by society, by our parents and friends to do the jobs which are considered to be highly prestigious and which will allow us to get a very high income. As such, we tend to do jobs which provide us with a high remuneration even though we don’t really like what we are doing.

Your career choice should not only be based on what will provide you with the highest income or what others want you to do, but it should be based on a number of other factors like, what you love doing, what your talents and aptitudes are, what type of personality you have, etc. When you do a job that you don’t like, you will never perform at your best and your productivity will be poor. This in turn causes a lot of stress as a result of which, many other problems crop up in your life. This, however, should not be like this. You all deserve to do the things that you really love and enjoy as you are all bestowed with unlimited potentials and unique talents. It is only when you do what you are meant to do that success will follow. When you are happy doing the job you are destined to do instead of blindly following the crowd and doing things that are not meant for you, you emit positive vibrations as a result of which you tend to attract more and more positive things into your life.

A wise person once said “If you follow the crowd, you will likely get no further than the crowd. If you walk alone, you're likely to end up in places no one has ever been before. Being an achiever is not without its difficulties, for peculiarity breeds contempt. The unfortunate thing about being ahead of your time is that when people finally realize you were right, they'll simply say it was obvious to everyone all along. You have two choices in life. You can dissolve into the main stream, or you can choose to become an achiever and be distinct. To be distinct, you must be different. To be different, you must strive to be what no else but you can be.” Doing a job you love is therefore of utmost importance for you to live a joyful life.

You can use the Law of Attraction to choose and manifest your ideal career in your life. This powerful universal law states that you attract into your life, whatever you give your energy, attention and focus to, whether wanted or unwanted. If you want to attract your ideal job, first of all, you must be very clear about what you want. Most of the time, you only have a very brief idea about the job you would like to do and as such, you tend to attract jobs that are not really suitable for you. How do you become clear about what you want? Most of the time, it is very difficult to know exactly what you want in an ideal career. One of the best ways to become clear is to make a list of things that you don’t like in a job. You don’t have to focus on what you don’t want to attract but just examine briefly what you don’t want. Once you have made a list of around 50 things that you don’t want, you can proceed by making the list of things that you want in an ideal job. The things that you want are the exact opposite of the things that you don’t want. For example, “I don’t want to do a job where I am not happy” will be replaced by I want a job where I am very happy and “I don’t want to have a boss” will be replaced by “I want a job where I am my own boss”.

Once you are clear about what you want in your ideal job, you must raise your vibration to attract your ideal job into your life. It is very important to know that in life, you do not get what you want but you get what you vibrate. You must therefore become a “vibrational match” to what you want in order to attract what you truly desire. You can raise your vibration by acting as if you already have the job that you want and start experiencing how you would feel if you were already doing that job. You can use affirmations or phrases like “I am in the process of attracting my ideal job” to raise your vibration to attract what you desire. You can also visualize what you want in your job and make as if you already have it. You must note that whether you are using affirmations or visualization, the most important thing is that you must feel what it would be like to already possess your ideal job.

Once you are very clear about your ideal job and you have raised your vibration to attract your ideal career, you should allow your ideal career to manifest in your life. Allowing is the absence of doubt and fear. If you have a strong desire to attract your ideal job but at the same time, you have strong doubts, you will never be able to attract your ideal career because you will be sending mixed signals in the Universe. If, on the other hand, you have a strong desire and some doubts, you will attract your ideal job, but it will take a little longer to manifest in your life. The best way for rapid manifestation of your ideal career is when you have a strong desire and no doubt at all. The right understanding and application of the Law of Attraction will bring miraculous results in your life.

You are all unique and are all here for a specific reason. You are born with specific talents and virtues and your job is to discover what you are here for and do the job you are designed to do, since the world needs what you have to give. Finding your true calling and doing the job you are meant to do will be your gift to this world and will allow you to live a more joyful life. As Abraham Maslow rightly said “A musician must make music, an artist must paint, a poet must write, if he is to be ultimately at peace with himself.” Your life is too short to be little and you all deserve to live an awesome life. Always follow the advice of Al Lopez who once said “Do what you love to do and give it your very best. Whether it's business or baseball, or the theater, or any field. If you don't love what you're doing and you can't give it your best, get out of it. Life is too short. You'll be an old man before you know it.”

Abundance Is Your Birthright!

by Priya Deelchand

You live in an abundant Universe and there is more than enough for all of you. Most people think of abundance in terms of material wealth only. They measure abundance in terms of the amount of money they have in their bank accounts, the cars they own, the properties they have and other material items they possess. Material wealth is only one component of abundance. In fact, abundance also includes love, joy, happiness, good health, peace, fulfilling relationships, etc.

When you look around you, you can see that we are surrounded by abundance and love, joy, happiness, money, peace and health is readily available to everyone willing to accept them. Many people, however, think in terms of scarcity. We think that there is not enough and as a result, we find it very difficult to manifest abundance and prosperity our lives. If there is any lack in your life it is not because there is not enough, but rather, because you are blocking abundance from coming to you because of your negative thoughts and limiting beliefs about prosperity. These negative vibrations that you send out in the Universe stop the flow of abundance from coming to you.

You can use the Law of Attraction to attract more abundance into your life. The Law of Attraction is one of the most powerful laws in the Universe and it states that you attract into your life whatever you give your energy, attention and focus to, whether wanted or unwanted. If, for example, you want to attract more money into your life, you have to first of all become very clear about what you desire. Once you are clear about what you want, you must raise your vibration and become a vibrational match to what you want to attract.

You must then allow the amount of money you want attract to come into your life and eliminate all the doubts and fears that you have about abundance and prosperity. If, for example, you want to attract a certain amount of money, say five hundred thousand dollars, you must keep your mind focused on the thought that you already have this sum and how you would feel when you use that money to buy the things you want. When you have doubts, you must immediately shift your thoughts to the result that you want and be grateful for it and feel happy.

One of the most important factors to living in abundance is to be in a constant state of gratitude. Staying in a state of gratitude will give you more things to be grateful for. An attitude of gratitude is an attractor for more of what you are grateful for. If you want more financial abundance in your life, you must be grateful for what you already have in your life. For example, you must be grateful for the money you have in your bank account, for the car you possess, for the house you own, etc. Giving thanks for everything that you have is a step forward toward achieving something bigger and better than your current situation. In fact, the feelings of gratitude and happiness will raise your vibration and make you attract more situations and circumstances to be even more grateful and happy.

Your life is meant to be abundant and you all deserve the very best in all areas of life. You are all children of the Universe and you all have an equal right to the infinite abundance that is available to all. Abundance is your birthright! You just have to claim it now and live the awesome life you desire and deserve!

Wish you all an abundant and prosperous life! You deserve it!

The Law of Attraction - The Key To A Happier Life

The Law of Attraction by Priya Deelchand

According to the Law of Attraction, you attract into your life whatever you give your energy, attention and focus to, whether wanted or unwanted. This law is the most powerful law in the universe and it is at work all the time. Most of us being unaware that the Law of Attraction is working in our life all the time tend to attract things non-deliberately and as such we live our lives by default.

Once you become conscious of the existence of this wonderful universal law and you come to understand it and start applying it into your life, you will be able to make the Law of Attraction work for you and you will be able to successfully manifest whatever you truly desire in your life. You then become a deliberate creator of your life and start living by design.

You are an energy being and you are continuously releasing vibrations. Your vibrations can be either positive or negative. When you are feeling happy, peaceful, successful, abundant, prosperous, loving, compassionate, enthusiastic, you are emitting positive vibrations. When you are feeling fearful, doubtful, anxious, angry, worried, sad, frustrated, jealous, depressed, stressed or confused, you emit negative vibrations.

The Law of Attraction is always responding to what you are vibrating by giving you more of it. When you emit positive vibrations, you will tend to attract more positive experiences, people, situations and circumstances in your life. On the other hand, when you give out negative vibes, you tend to attract more negative experiences in your life. According to the Law of Attraction, we are all magnets and we attract what we vibrate. Therefore, if you want to attract more positive things in your life, you should always vibrate positively.

Most of the time, you are not aware of what vibration you are emitting in the universe. You simply react to daily situations and to events that are happening around you and your vibrations tend to vary between positive and negative all the time. When you react unconsciously to these events which can be either good or bad, you tend to attract things by default in your life. Once you come to understand how the Law of Attraction works and how important it is to vibrate positively, you can start manifesting whatever you want and you become a deliberate creator of your life. This process of deliberate creation involves three steps.

Step 1: Identify Very Clearly What You Really Want

If you want to live the life of your dreams, it is very important for you to become very clear about what you really want in your life. Clarity is the first step for deliberate attraction. Most of the time, we don’t have a very clear idea about what we want and we attract things which do not really give us complete satisfaction. One of the best ways to become clear about what you do want in your ideal life is to examine very briefly what you do not want. You then replace the unwanted vibration with a wanted vibration. It is very important for you to focus only on what you really want rather than on what you don’t want. Once you become very clear about what you truly want in your life, you should use only positive words to state what you want. You should never use negative words and words like no, not and don’t should be completely eliminated. For example, if you want to buy a car, you should not say “I don’t want a car which is small and uncomfortable” instead, you should say “I want a car which is very spacious and where I feel very comfortable.”

Step 2: Raise Your Vibration

Once you are very clear about what you want to manifest in your life, the next step is to raise your vibration to attract what you want. Remember, you do not get what you want but you get what you vibrate. You must become a “vibrational match” to what you desire in order to attract what you truly want. You can raise your vibration by acting as if you already own the thing that you want to manifest in your life and you start experiencing how you would feel if you were already in possession of that thing. For example, how would you feel if you were already living in your ideal house, if you were driving your ideal car, you were spending wonderful holidays in the country of your dreams, etc. You can also use affirmations or phrases like “I am in the process of attracting my ideal house which is very beautiful and spacious and where I feel very happy….” to raise your vibration to attract what you desire. You can also visualize what you want to attract in your life and make as if you are already living the life of your dreams. You can see yourself very happy doing the things you desire. You must always bear in mind that whether you are using affirmations or visualization, the most important thing is that you must feel what it would be like to already possess what you desire.

Step 3: Allowing

The third and most important step in the process of deliberate attraction is allowing. Allowing is the absence of doubt and fear. The speed at which the Law of Attraction manifests your desire is in direct proportion to how much you allow. If you have a strong desire and strong doubt, your desire will never be manifested because you will be sending mixed signals in the universe. If, on the other hand, you have a strong desire and no doubt or fear at all, your desire will be manifested very rapidly. The most common cause of doubt is your own limiting beliefs. These limiting beliefs act as blocks and prevent you from getting what you want. Once you remove your doubts and replace them by certainty and once you substitute your fears by confidence, what you truly desire will be manifested in your life. As Dr. Norman Vincent Peale said "If you expect the best, you will be the best. Learn to use one of the most powerful laws in this world; change your mental habits to belief instead of disbelief. Learn to expect, not to doubt. In so doing, you bring everything into the realm of possibility."

Once you start applying all these three steps to deliberately attract what you want, your life will change for the better and you will become a happier and more fulfilled person. You all deserve to live the life you have always dreamt of and regardless of who you are or what you have been, you can be what you want to be. Joy Page was right when she said "Don't let anything stand in the way of you claiming and manifesting the life that you choose rather than the life you have by default."